Writing on software development, software design, random thoughts, and books.

All of my long-form thoughts on programming, design, learning, and books — collected in chronological order.

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Closer Than It Seems, Farther Than It Is

Closer Than It Seems, Farther Than It Is

Sometimes, what seems close is farther than we imagine—like the mountain I once thought stood right behind my school. Dreams can feel the same way: distant, untouchable. But as I’ve grown, I’ve learned that fate doesn’t always hand us golden crowns or lofty titles. Instead, it gives us something simpler—a hat to wear, one that shields us from the sun and storms. It may not be grand, but it’s mine, and I’ve chosen to make it part of who I am.

The Language of Tears

The Language of Tears

Rumi cries often, but I don’t see it as weakness—it’s his way of speaking. I was there when he first entered the world, when he first called me “Papa,” and every tear since has reminded me that sometimes all he needs is a hug, a quiet moment, and the memory of happiness together before the tears fade into a smile.